I am discouraged to post for now but checking in that we are okay and still unable to reach my friend.

quoted by phred
she communicates when SHE wants to; and only With who she wants to.

who said that? and if you keep posting like this, do you think I want to now? I talk with whoever corresponds. nice and gentle.

for calls, you called me once when miles was having a surgery. I get "ringings" when I am ON AIM and yes, I usually am not on it - not the best way of contacting me or busy life. I have responded to your emails like I have been .. you have my email!

catty, you could have asked me, I get notifications through mobile easily and will respond as soon as possible.