Do any of you have prayer requests??

[RobiLee]

I am once again asking for prayers. Although I don't know if I believe in those any more and this is coming from someone who attends church twice a week.

I just found out this morning that things are taking a nasty turn. Alden has filed for divorce, taken money out of the bank (which was supposed to be mine) and even filed for a restraining order against me. I don't understand the restraining order. I've only seen him once this past month and talked to him twice. Once to see if he could fix my washer and then this morning when he told me what he was doing. He was extremely cold and said I was no longer his concern. I don't know how things got so bad. This is all coming from the same guy who said he would pay the house payment, the car payment, dog food and vet bills and even my medical bills. I was bawling like crazy this morning but still managed to make it to work. I am numb now and scared. There is a huge part of me that wants to get this week's paycheck and take what little money I have in the bank and just disappear. I'm so tired of feeling like I'm insane. I have to end all of this.

I know I will regret posting here.

[joycenalex]

robin, i am and will be praying for you. i am so sorry that it's gotten angry and ugly with alden. don't dissappear, tori and katie need you. do take the money from the bank and open another account that alden cannot access. do you have a lawyer yet? i will be thinking of you, kindest regards, joyce

[cyber-sibes]

(((hugs))) Robin, even though you feel insane, it's his behavior that sounds insane. Chances are there is more going on with him than meets the eye. Starting a separate bank account and getting a lawyer immediately are good suggestions. You need to look out for Tori, Katy, & yourself. I'm so sorry it's t urning nasty. You're still in my prayers.

[cyber-sibes]

(((hugs))) Robin, even though you feel insane, it's his behavior that sounds insane. Chances are there is more going on with him than meets the eye. Starting a separate bank account and getting a lawyer immediately are good suggestions. You need to look out for Tori, Katy, & yourself. I'm so sorry it's turning nasty. You're still in my prayers.

[gini]

Val, I am very sorry for your loss. This must be very hard for you.

[Catty1]

Robilee - get a lawyer AT ONCE. I am sure there are one or two in your congregation, or your pastor can recommend one.

Do that now. And write down everything Alden has done - bank account #, what the withdrawl was, everything. Keep a record - this will be useful because you will be upset for a while and it will be hard to keep everything clear.

I know it is HARD to do practical things - but you have to protect yourself and the kids.

HUGS!

[dukedogsmom]

Robin, never feel bad for posting here. My brother just got a divorce and went through something similar. She cleaned out their bank account of a huge amount. I know how much divorce hurts from a marriage that wasn't a happy one so I can't imagine how you're feeling. I'm not understanding why the men change like that. It's happened to a couple of my friends. But whatever, please don't think it's you. It's them and when they wake up and realise what they've done, they'll more than likely regret it. Just take comfort in those gorgeous, sweet dogs of yours and realise that you're not alone. You have us all for support.

Kay, glad your grandpaw is doing better. I lost both of mine at pretty early ages and really can't remember them too much at all.

[wolf_Q]

Robin I'm so sorry to hear it has gotten even worse. I don't understand why he's doing this to you. He's the one who is acting insane. If you need to talk, I'm here. {{hugs}}

Kay I'm glad your Grandpa is home and doing better. Val, I'm very sorry for your loss.

[anna_66]

I know I will regret posting here.

No, you won't. This is just what you need, for you friends to be there for you in your time of need. We are here to help you be strong.

I've emailed you. (((HUGS)))

Prayers to everyone in need.

[Cincy'sMom]

Robin, I am glad you posted. There are many of us here that are worried about you and want to help. Let us be your friends and your support to get through this.

[Daisy and Delilah]

My thoughts and prayers continue to go out for everybody.

{{{{{ROBIN}}}}} I'm so sorry to hear this news. I hope and pray that everything gets better soon for you. You must be ready to collapse.

[4 Dog Mother]

Robin, I am thinking of you and praying for you. Please let us here at PT be your friends and help you through this. I would very much like to talk to you. I am going to pm you my numbers. Please pm me back yours but call me ANYTIME day or night. I NEED TO BE THERE FOR YOU! Diana

[Kfamr]

Ugh. I don't know all of the information, but I guess my grandpa is going back into the hospital. He was acting different again and my grandma called my dad to come get him. I'm not sure as I just heard that from my uncle and he doesn't even know all of the news.

I thought he was doing so good too. I guess there won't be a father's day get together there.

[caseysmom]

I am sorry Kay, I hope you can still have a get together at least for your Father.

[cassiesmom]

Ugh. I don't know all of the information, but I guess my grandpa is going back into the hospital.

Kay, I was thinking and praying for you and your granddad during church this morning, how are things, how are you all doing? HUG