Good child psychology books?

[Lady's Human]

Ditto what the others said.

Axel (Now 2 1/2) went through a couple months of wanting NO ONE!!!!! but Mom. It fades after while, and you can help it along a bit by not giving in to the tantrums and crying.

[Sirrahsim]

From what I have heard, the more attached they are to you NOW, the easier it will be for them to be independent and self-sufficient when they get older.
At the risk of sounding "crunchy" , I think that it is perfectly healthy and good for them to be attached to Mom or Dad. Tyler was very much a momma's boy when he was a baby and even though he still prefers me he is also very independent and has no problems playing by himself. I believe that his attachment to me taught him that I will be here for him no matter what so now he feels comfortable branching out because he knows that that is still true. Does that make any sense??

I'm not saying that a child that doesn't form a strong attachment doesn't learn that, but I certainly think that that attachment is beneficial

[Riptide]

I'm pretty sure she'll grow out of it...my mom tells me that when I was very, very young, I was super clingy. Now, I'm almost 15, and am desperate to get OUT of the house and AWAY from my parents.

[AdoreMyDogs]

I'm pretty sure she'll grow out of it...my mom tells me that when I was very, very young, I was super clingy. Now, I'm almost 15, and am desperate to get OUT of the house and AWAY from my parents.

Hehe I'm 31 years old and I NEVER get sick of my mom! I even think she's going to live with us for a few months to a year and I can hardly wait, and she said neither me nor my brothers were over clingy as babies.

Thanks for the advice. Since this is my first baby, all these things are new to me and I'm not sure what's normal and what's not. Although I love how much Quinn adores me, and it makes my heart swell with pride and stuff, I do hope she grows out of this so other people can appreciate how truly wonderful it is to hold her She has a lot of family who really love her and want nothing more then to cuddle her and hug her.

I'll try to get someone else to hold her every day, if even for just a minute.

Thanks everyone. Hey if anyone knows of any books that explain this please let me know as it'll be nice to not have to ask for advice/help every time something comes up

[BitsyNaceyDog]

From what I have heard, the more attached they are to you NOW, the easier it will be for them to be independent and self-sufficient when they get older.
At the risk of sounding "crunchy" , I think that it is perfectly healthy and good for them to be attached to Mom or Dad. Tyler was very much a momma's boy when he was a baby and even though he still prefers me he is also very independent and has no problems playing by himself. I believe that his attachment to me taught him that I will be here for him no matter what so now he feels comfortable branching out because he knows that that is still true. Does that make any sense??

I'm not saying that a child that doesn't form a strong attachment doesn't learn that, but I certainly think that that attachment is beneficial

That's what I've heard too.

[sirrahbed]

Leslie - do you have the LLL book? I feel pretty sure they talk about it in there. Quinn being attached to you is excellent and how it should be. Some folks even use what is called "attachment parenting" intentionally because it is believed to be the best for families. That might be something to google. Yes it is a "crunchy" concept but it works. Quinn will separate easily from you when she is ready. Letting others hold her often is a good idea. Don't worry - you are doing great

[Cataholic]

What Missy said!!! Strong bonds allow for greater dependence.