I think there needs to be a clear distinction between Fund Raisers, Charity Balls and Celebratory Parties. I am not sure where a Gift Party fits in there.

I read in some advice column about a bride who suggested a minimum dollar value for cash contribution. And one who advised what color the guests should wear.

You are right Cataholic....we must be old....

Let's sit back in our rocking chairs and reminisce about the "good old days" when having a party meant entertaining your guests rather than counting the house.

A fun article about this subject ...Marriage