"Pet Angel Fund for Spaying Gizzy et al"

[jennielynn1970]

Have you never forged your mom's siggy?! LOL!

I was queen of that one in high school. Academic failure notices? If i couldn't do it good enough we paid the one girl at roller skating to do it for us for $2.00

To me, you do what you gotta do to get it done. If mom doesn't ask what was required, then just sign the form for her and let it go at that. Not the best way to go, but if it came to that, I'd do it so it could get done.

[Roxyluvsme13]

Have you never forged your mom's siggy?! LOL!

I was queen of that one in high school. Academic failure notices? If i couldn't do it good enough we paid the one girl at roller skating to do it for us for $2.00

To me, you do what you gotta do to get it done. If mom doesn't ask what was required, then just sign the form for her and let it go at that. Not the best way to go, but if it came to that, I'd do it so it could get done.

lmao.

I forged it once in Kindergarten . I did a pretty decent job too. My teacher didn't notice.

I'll get her to sign the form somehow. If we go in the option of that clinic.

[Ginger's Mom]

Have you never forged your mom's siggy?! LOL!

I was queen of that one in high school. Academic failure notices? If i couldn't do it good enough we paid the one girl at roller skating to do it for us for $2.00

To me, you do what you gotta do to get it done. If mom doesn't ask what was required, then just sign the form for her and let it go at that. Not the best way to go, but if it came to that, I'd do it so it could get done.

Wow, I cannot believe you just gave that advise to a 14 year old.

[Grace]

Wow, I cannot believe you just gave that advise to a 14 year old.

Neither can I. Talk about contributing to the delinquency . . . . . . .

[jennielynn1970]

Neither can I. Talk about contributing to the delinquency . . . . . . .

Ok, sometimes you really need to read into sarcasm. That's the problem with a forum where you write things.. you never know whether things are being said tongue in cheek.

Basically we want her to get the form signed. If mom has to drive her there, I'm sure seeing the form and a signature that isn't hers would be a tip off about things, so it's not like it's something doable.

Maybe you also need to get off your high horses unless you're perfect and have never done anything like that... we're talking high school/middle school stuff. Gimme a break. I'm telling her to go get an abortion, which would be contributing to delinquency.

[Ginger's Mom]

Ok, sometimes you really need to read into sarcasm. That's the problem with a forum where you write things.. you never know whether things are being said tongue in cheek.

Please re-read the last line of your post that I quoted above. That was not sarcasm or tongue in cheek. That was advising a teenage girl to do whatever she needs to do to get her way (or in this case your way). I would not go so far as to say you are contributing to the delinquency of a minor, but you are certainly contributing to the tension, uncertainty, and lack of funds to pay the bills in the house. I am not sure why it is so important to you ladies that the animals stay in a home where they are making life difficult for the people, and where the animals well-being is neglected. At this point you really aren't helping anyone.

[jennielynn1970]

Please re-read the last line of your post that I quoted above. That was not sarcasm or tongue in cheek. That was advising a teenage girl to do whatever she needs to do to get her way (or in this case your way). I would not go so far as to say you are contributing to the delinquency of a minor, but you are certainly contributing to the tension, uncertainty, and lack of funds to pay the bills in the house. I am not sure why it is so important to you ladies that the animals stay in a home where they are making life difficult for the people, and where the animals well-being is neglected. At this point you really aren't helping anyone.

First off, I'm not adding to the "lack of funds" to be paid in the house, whatever the heck you mean by that one. You're confused, and better get yourself straight before you blame a person in PENNSYLVANIA for taking money meant to pay bills in TENNESSEE. And as for the form and forging the siggy, come on, like she's going to do it. What I meant was, get the form signed by mom, get it done however you can, but get her to sign it.

Did I ever say whether I was pro or con of this? No. I said I just wanted to get this moving for the animal's sake. I'm not taking sides. I'm trying to get things accomplished, and whether Bri decides to rehome Gizzie is up to her. Gizzie is her and her mother's pet, so if and when they decide to rehome her, they will make that decision. Unless you want to go down there and cat nap her yourself.

[Karen]

I am closing this thread, as it has gotten long out of hand.

[catnapper]

I got tired of reading this saga at page 14. Of understand BOTH sides of the debate (amazing, huh? )

First, let me shed some light on mom's feelings, since I was there last year. She is most likely feeling that they are constantly having their electricity cut off and rent late and no food on the table.... yet her daughter is harassing her about vet care. I myself would explode on my kids too if they were asking for money I just didn't have, even if they needed the money for a valid reason! There are priorities she has a mother, first being provide basic needs of shelter and food. It sounds like mom is having a very hard time of providing those basics right now. I am certainly not condemning because I was there! I've been employed for 6 months now and only now catching up with bills - and thats only basic bills (with a few Pouncer emergencies tossed in ) I know exactly how overwhelmed mom is feeling. I also think its quite possible that this donation thing is insulting her and making her feel like she's a total failure because her daughter is now accepting donations from complete strangers. Think about it: her attitude towards this has been bad. It could be because she's hurt and ashamed that people are doing something for her daughter that she cannot do herself.

Oh, and speaking of Pouncer.... if he got sick BEFORE I got a job? I don't want to think of what might have happened. Truthfully, I'd have gotten the rescue to take him back and pay for him. I'm sure they'd give him back to me and them I'd repay them $10 at a time for a looong time. But Bri obviously doesn't have that luxury.


I would write more on my wonderful opinions but I have to go to the hospital for blood tests (ugh)

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Miss Z -as much as I applaud and admire the defence of your friend we are not mind readers so we can only respond and react to how we are treated on the board ourselves. It isn't all one sided you know.

Granted we may have been too "forceful" with some advice and opinions and there are some who are here simply to stir things up, but the majority of the posts are out of genuine concern for Bri and her situation.

How is Gizzy, by the way. She seems to have been forgotten in all this