I have avoided this thread for quite some time, but I have been wanting to respond.

I don't think I have ever been so confused in my entire life. It seems as though she was hoping the money would come in "cash form", right in the mail box - to spend on something other than her pets. I got that impression when I read through the other thread, and this one. I know that seems completely ignorant of me to say that, but I just got that feeling. How hard is it to make a phone call? Your mom should be thrilled that other people are paying for her pets to go to the vet. If she was thankful to any of these wonderful people that have donated, she would have made the phone call days ago.

Let me tell you, it is very easy to see what kind of person you are through what you write. I don't think I have heard somebody contradict themselves as much as you have. The "stories" keep changing, they are confusing the heck out of everyone. Your poor pets are the ones suffering here, not you. And I certainly don't have any sympathy for you.

I cannot for the life of me understand how you could go and see POTC two times instead of putting that money away for something important. Yeah sure, you want to be a kid - but with a Mother who could care less about your animals, you should have saved it...

My cats are like my children, they are family before they are pets - I would do anything for them.

You don't have to care about my opinion. Do the hardest thing on earth for you. Act for yourself. Face the truth. You may choose to quote me and voice your own opinion on what I have just said - or you can take it as it is and keep this thread calm.