Well I talked to him. Things are going a bit better for him. He's ready to be done highschool and move on to university. Him and his g/f are back together and things are going well so he seems happy about that.

His main problem is his mom. I can't say i blame him after seeing how she treats him. I told him that I understand how he feels after going through VERY similar situations with my sister when i was younger but while I am still not close with her.... I have learned that life is TOO short to be angry. But he is very hurt by her actions. I told him that she is upset that he won't speak with her and she wants to try to talk to him without arguing. I told him that he should call her and try and if she starts arguing with him to stay calm and just tell her that he does not wish to speak to her until she can control her anger with him..... if he doesn't get mad and just stays calm and tells her that perhaps she will open her eyes and see what she is doing to their relationship.... or what is left of it. At least he can say he TRIED to open the lines of communication. I told him that while he may be angry with her and want her to feel as bad as she makes him feel.... his life is his OWN and not her's and he shouldn't do anything out of anger that will affect his future because he has a really bright one.

He said he was going to call her last night. I don't know if he actually did or not though.


I don't know if I got through to him at all or if I even helped but I hope I did.