Quote Originally Posted by kuhio98
A friend said something that helped me. Think of love as the flame of a candle. Use that candle to light others and keep the flame going.
That is beautiful, and along the same lines that I was thinking while reading this thread.

As everyone has said.....your heart, Maxie & Cosmo will let you know when the time is right. It varies with all different people. There is no wrong or right when it comes to this decision. We only went three weeks without DJ (dog) before getting Zoee. And if/when (god forbid) Taz goes to the bridge, I'm pretty sure I'll go out and safe another kitty. Of course that's easy for me to say, I'm not in your situation.

Listen to your heart.