Halo was adopted a month after Kuhio died. I thought that was too soon, but Bobcat was ready. It turned out to be just what I needed. Halo's kitten fur soaked up many a tear those first few months.

Maybe it would help to not think of it as "moving on"? What does that mean? Your babies will always be a part of your life. Yes, they're not physically here anymore, but they are in your heart forever.

A friend said something that helped me. Think of love as the flame of a candle. Use that candle to light others and keep the flame going.