Oh gee...I hope it is "just" conjunctivitis...there isn't anything irritating way down in his ear that could cause this, is there?

Someone here mentioned ear polyps....just wondering if your vet checked.

Having Bobby in his own room might help him calm down - he will associate you with Food and Treats and other charming niceties! (The eye ointment will be a minor thing if followed with Treats, I understand! )

I hope he is well soon! HUGS to little Bobby and his devoted purrent!