Quote Originally Posted by jenn_librarian
Hon, you're not being selfish, but also understand that you are going though the same things that many other families in the US and other countries go though (and many worse). I'm sure you don't think you're the only one in debt or having tons of bills to pay... believe me, we're ALL there. I donate where I can, but many times that goes on my home equity line of credit... so up goes my mortgage payment, but I try to help people out.

Understand where many of us are coming from??

Exactly. We cant hardly keep the lights on and the eviction notice away. Im saving by the dollar to get this done. I had money for Snow and things came up. I refuse to touch my cat money now, I have $40 saved. The only difference is I know its not the cats fault in any way shape or form. The other girls still have a couple months since they are going on 4 months. I am going to try my hardest to get Snow done this coming week. Remember when she ran away after I had been gone for a few days? Im scared she could have gotten pg again so it has to get done, NOW. I have no way to know either way.