I hope this poor girl doesn't live with regret not being there to the end.
I once read an article in my cat magazine, and there they said that when staying with your dying pet causes too much distress, it would be better for the pet when you are not around, because it won't help the animal to feel your pain, too.

But it's a hard decision. When I lost my Aysche (who was only 21 months old), I was about that age of the girl I saw today, in my early 20s. I didn't expect something like that to happen to such a young cat, so I wasn't prepared, and I was so overwhelmed that I couldn't stay with her. Later, I felt bad about it, and while I had Katz, I was hoping I would be able to be with her when the day comes... When Katz was pts at the age of 14, I stayed with her and her head rested on my shoulder. It was the hardest thing I ever did, but I was with her when she passed over. I know I will do the same for Luna and Lily, when it's time...

Pawla, I'm very sorry about your loss. I know how hard it is!

Taz_Zoee, I often wonder how a person can do such a job! I think it's a wonderful job, but it's this part that makes me think I could never do it.

momcat, thanks for keeping Luna in your prayers. Scritchies and smoochies are already delivered!

Kirsten