I know but my last comment about that says:

Its not that. When I am older I will take the abused ones in a second but this would be our FIRST dog. We just couldnt cope... my mum certainly couldnt cope.


We are not planning for a dog from a breeder. We know every dog will have issues but not as big also the dogs state that they need experienced owners- not good for first dog owner like us. That is why, so in some ways we cant even help not taking abused ones. Also you dont really know my mums past that well. She could NOT cope.