been there done that....... LOL.......

my inlaws donīt get along with my family, not because they donīt like each otehr, they just donīt like gatherings and people at all, they are very......well they donīt like people, they donīt even gather up with their own family so even less with mine.......

at Christmas, birthdays, etc., Iīve always been one day at my familyīs and the other at theirs...... only last year my MIL came to my boyīs bday and only because a friend of her was attending, go figure, not even because it was her grandsonīs bday, but because she didnīt wanted her friend alone..... anyway...... I couldnīt care less......

as long as my boy sees it (not pondering at it though) he has double celebrations.......and that means double presents!!! LOL.....

and I just remembered this......weīve always had a Christmas eve at my moms side, then Christmas day at my dadīs side and now a third day at my in laws......