There are 2 rott/basssett mixes at one of our local shelters now, they are adorable and lazy! As far as her disliking men you may be able to get her over that fear by training. How old is she? My rott. was terrified of men when I got her now she loves almost all of them! If you are willing to work with the problem & your heart is telling you to try it then give it a shot. Good luck!