Sharing Your Love

[catwhisperer]

I have three cats also. Never thought about it but I had three children(all adults now) and I do the same thing with the cats I did with them.

I give each one attention at different times and in different ways just like most folks on this website have already mentioned. One thing with the kids though was that I tried to give more attention to positive behavior and less to negative behavior. Same with the kitties now, if that makes sense? I have noticed though if one gets too much attention the others feel neglected and tend to act up or treat each other badly. They get along better if each gets his or her loving in his or her way. Then I have a husband who gives them attention too. That helps a great deal.