I'm very sorry Alyssa. I'm glad you have talked to your mom though!

I know almost exactly what you are going through. I'm pretty sure almost everybody gets compaired to their siblings to some extent or another. Try having a twin! Not so much my parents, but other people compare me and my sister constantly. The obviously don't notice it, but it is actually really rude.

I hope you can work everything out, and you can get back to the activities you enjoy!