Are We Really True Friends?

[IRescue452]

I'd be seriously concerned that this girl has a mental disorder of some sort. Maybe you should talk to her parents or something, see if they can get her in somewhere for a diagnosis rather than you just dumping her as a friend.

[FarmGirl13]

Well, I'm not friends with Cassie anymore. What she said to Gtrace was the final straw!!!!

Well, last Friday was the school dance and Grace couldn't go cause her father was going into the hospital to get a surgery. Grace really wanted to be with her dad so she gave up the dance. when she told Cassie this, Cassie said the meanest thing. she said "forget (actually it was something else, but didn't want to offend anybody) your dad and come to the dance.'
I want up to her and told Cassie off. i said that wasn't rite and it was really really cruel.

so now I'm not talking to her.
I did talk to her parents and they just said they didn't know that she was being that mean. they told me that they would talk to Cassie. hopefully they did.... Thanks evryone!

[Argranade]

Cheers!

[Miss Z]

She sounds like the sort of friend you could well do without and the other 3 don't sound much better.

Move on and find a whole new set of friends - you deserve better

I agree with that, she sounds like a real nasty piece of work. No-one who hurts another so greatly should have the nerve to call that person their friend.

I'm glad that her parents are going to talk to her, perhaps it will help, although I do doubt it. She doesn't sound like the type to take advice.

I'm sorry you have to go through this. Sometimes I feel very lucky that I am very close to my two best friends and that we always help each other out no matter what. I hope that everything gets better for you from here.

[joycenalex]

april, you did the right thing, and i'm proud of you, it was brave to stand up to a bully. regards, joyce

[AbbyMom]

Good for you for doing the right thing!

In most people's lives there comes a point when they realize that there are people who just aren't worth being around. They are trouble. They cause pain. They cause upset and distress wherever they go.

Frankly, some of these people may have real problems...but you can't solve them.

Part of being an adult is to be able to recognize who these people are and avoid them.

Sounds to be like you've recognized Cassie for what she is and that it's time to move on to people who can be real friends.

Tell Kelly, Stacey and Grace that and ask them to do the same.

[crow_noir]

Congratulations on being brave enough and standing up for Grace.

It was also good that you talked to Cassie's parents.

*hugs* G'luck. Hopefully Grace will respect and appreciate what you did and still want to be your friend.

Well, I'm not friends with Cassie anymore. What she said to Gtrace was the final straw!!!!

Well, last Friday was the school dance and Grace couldn't go cause her father was going into the hospital to get a surgery. Grace really wanted to be with her dad so she gave up the dance. when she told Cassie this, Cassie said the meanest thing. she said "forget (actually it was something else, but didn't want to offend anybody) your dad and come to the dance.'
I want up to her and told Cassie off. i said that wasn't rite and it was really really cruel.

so now I'm not talking to her.
I did talk to her parents and they just said they didn't know that she was being that mean. they told me that they would talk to Cassie. hopefully they did.... Thanks evryone!