I have cats that prefer me at different times. Georgia is the night time bed time cat. When I lay down to read, she jumps up. So, that is time she and I have. Dakky and Tenny will share the bed with me, and usually each other- though Dakky will chase him off. So, I see them in the am and pm while still in bed. Then, Allie is the morning bathroom cat, and Tex joins us, most of the time. With Tex being the alpha cat, he kinda makes his way to me whenever he feels like it, and the others stay away. I have problems with Minnie, as she stays in the basement, but she is the first cat I greet and leave, since the garage opens off there.

So, I guess my strategy is to take the time the cats have decided is 'their' time, and I just make sure I touch everyone everyday. I wish there was a way to curb the bully love behavior that Dakky exhibits, but I haven't found one yet. He is so bold! Tenny will be laying on my chest (all 16 pounds), and Dakky will come bounding over. Shoot, he nearly upsets me!