The hug and telling you love her would be a great help. At this time she needs to work things out for her self. Kicking someone out and taking care if things by yourself is a hard thing to do and may take more than once to actually be strong enough to stick with it. Just support her no matter what she decides to do and give yourself a big hug from me. (a mom who has been there and a past kid who was in your shoes) good luck its hard for everyone