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  1. #1
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    Dear Bunny, I am so very sorry to read about your beloved Fluffy. You have my very deepest sympathy. This is such a hard decision to make.

    Remember that you have given Fluffy a long, peaceful, happy life full of love and warmth and food and comfort. You and he will share that love forever.

    Hugs and prayers,

    Pat
    I meant," said Ipslore bitterly, "what is there in this world that truly makes living worthwhile?"
    Death thought about it.
    CATS, he said eventually. CATS ARE NICE.

    -- Terry Pratchett (1948—2015), Sourcery

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    As Catty1 says, the longer we have them, the more we love them. That makes the decision just that much harder

    9/3/13
    I did the right thing by setting you free
    But the pain is very deep.
    If only I could turn back time, forever, you I'd keep.
    I miss you


    I hear you whimper in your sleep
    I gently pet you and say, no bad dreams
    It will be alright, to my dog as dark as night.

    Fur as dark as the night.
    Join me on this flight.
    Paws of love that follow me.
    In my heart you'll forever be.
    [/SIZE]



    How I wish I could hold you near.
    Turn back time to make it so.
    Hug you close and never let go.
    11/12/06




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    I am so sorry you are going through this tough time. I can't even begin to imagine having to make that decision, and I dread having to do it some day for Taz and Zoee. But I know you will make the right choice, even if it hurts you, it is what's best for Fluffy.
    You and Fluffy are in my thougts tonight.
    Our goal in life should be - to be as good a person as our dog thinks we are.

    Thank you for the siggy, Michelle!


    Cindy (Human) - Taz (RB Tabby) - Zoee (RB Australian Shepherd) - Paizly (Dilute Tortie) - Taggart (Aussie Mix) - Jax (Brown & White Tabby), - Zeplyn (Cattle Dog Mix)

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    May you find peace and acceptance when the time comes for Fluffy to go. It is so hard to loose such a wonderful, loved friend.

    Special Needs Pets just leave bigger imprints on your heart!

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    Bunny - are you going to try the appetite pills?

    If he sleeps so much, I would think he is comfy enough. Give lots of kisses, like you said.

    {{{{hugs}}}}
    "Do or do not. There is no try." -- Yoda

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    I'm so sorry. I've been asking the same questions about my Kiri and feeling so helpless.

    Fluffy knows how much you love him. And because you love him, you'll be able to make the right decisions when it's time.

  7. #7
    I'm so sorry to hear about this. We've all been there and know how difficult it is to let go. Try telling yourself that it isn't about you right now, it's about Fluffy and his quality of life. And most importantly, you don't want him to suffer. He's been good to you and vice versa. And if you have to do this last act of kindness for him, then you'll be strong enough to do it because we here at PT will be sending you the strength you need. Hang on to your strength but, if the time is here, let go of Fluffy. He won't hold it against you and he'll be so much better off. Hugs to you and Fluffy.
    Blessings,
    Mary



    "Time and unforeseen occurrence befall us all." Ecclesiastes 9:11

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    We are so sorry for your pain and grief. You and Tim and Fluffy said goodbye to each other the very best way you could.

    You gave him a wonderful long life full of love and warmth and comfort and happiness, with those he loves the most and who love him the most with him right up to the very end. And how kind the doctor and staff were, too. We should all live and die so well.

    Your dearest Fluffy is now an Angel who will greet you and welcome you home One Fine Day (please excuse me, Gary, for stealing your line, but it says so many things so very well).

    Love and hugs and purrs of healing and comfort,

    Pat, Peony, Sydney, Priscilla, Poppy, and Elmer
    I meant," said Ipslore bitterly, "what is there in this world that truly makes living worthwhile?"
    Death thought about it.
    CATS, he said eventually. CATS ARE NICE.

    -- Terry Pratchett (1948—2015), Sourcery

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    My heart breaks for both of you in reading your post about Fluffy, I too have had to make that decision that we all never want to ever have to make, but in the end my husband and I knew it was the right thing to do, sure we questioned everything, ourselves, the dr, even Ginger when she herself was showing us that it was time for her. We never wanted to let her go, she was all I had left from my cockers that I had had for 14yrs, but trust me, she will forever thank you and tim for putting her at rest and letting her have peace. In more ways than you know she is showing you that it is time, you have to accept it and do what needs to be done. I know this is the most horrific heart breaking decision, but be strong for her. my prayers and my thoughts will be with all of you, God bless you and give you peace of mind.
    hugs to you.

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    Bunny, I'm so sorry to hear this sad news about Fluffy. Like others have already said, he will let you know when its time. My Pepper let me know that he had enough and I wasn't about to sit back and watch him suffer any more so I had to have him put to sleep. I know it's a very hard thing to do but it's even harder to watch an animal suffer. You and your family will continue to remain in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Please take care. (((HUGS)))

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    I am sorry to hear about Fluffy. But everybody is right. That is the best gift you can give your pet, helping him find his way "home" to the Rainbow Bridge where he will have no more pain. Stay strong even though it is very hard to do so. Remember, we at PT are here for you.

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    I have been where you are and I feel your pain. Take comfort in knowing that you are not alone in this decision. Look into your heart and into Fluffy's eyes. They will tell you what to do.

    {{{hugs}}}
    Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand and strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and screaming WOO HOO - What a Ride!
    --unknown

    Sometimes the most real things in the world are the things we can't see
    --Polar Express

    Until one has loved an animal, part of their soul remains unawakened.




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    I am so sorry to hear this. Bunny, you DO know what to do, you just have not come to peace with it yet. I have gone through it several times. It is never easy.

    Prayers for you to find peace and for Fluffy to be painfree until the end.


    {{{{{HUGS}}}}}
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    Oh Bunny, I know exactly how you feel. It is a difficult decision and you will always second guess it ... but it has to be made. I send you my love and many hugs!!!

    Kim
    Kim Loves Cats and Doggies Too!

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