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    That is so sad. But I can kind of understand. Before Maxie died I was afraid to fly to Florida. But after he died, I didn't care whether my plane crashed. Because if it did, it meant that I would be with my Maxie.

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    I know how incredably upsetting losing an animal is and as elizabethann said, its shocking how badly people can react.

    Im thinking maybe it was like a baby to them, seeing as they were older people the dog was probably their baby in a way. I know a lot of old ladies from work keep pets as company because their children have moved on and dont visit as often, so In a way it must be like losing a baby.

    RIP I hope they are all together again.

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    They must have been so devastated.

    But, they're all now together again: for eternity.


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    Grieving couple commits suicide after dog dies..

    Oh my my how so horrible & sad..

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    I'm so sad they made this choice. When I think of all the other lives these 2 could have made better.... If their love and devotion could have been passed on to another pet who just wanted someone to love.
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    This is very sad. I must say that I do understand how grief can
    comsume someone to the point where death could mean peace & a release
    from pain.

    I believe if friends had been close & understood their grief, maybe this
    message could be driven home to this couple.Make them think they were
    still needed in this world.


    Quote Originally Posted by kuhio98
    I'm so sad they made this choice. When I think of all the other lives these 2 could have made better.... If their love and devotion could have been passed on to another pet who just wanted someone to love.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kuhio98
    I'm so sad they made this choice. When I think of all the other lives these 2 could have made better.... If their love and devotion could have been passed on to another pet who just wanted someone to love.
    I agree.

    And very sad also that simply having each other was not enough.

    I have to wonder if they weren't depressed almost to the point of suicide before the dog died, and perhaps they were just holding on and waiting until the old dog died. Maybe they wanted to commit suicide, but did not want to leave their dog alone.

    Who knows.
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    Quote Originally Posted by elizabethann
    That is so sad. But I can kind of understand. Before Maxie died I was afraid to fly to Florida. But after he died, I didn't care whether my plane crashed. Because if it did, it meant that I would be with my Maxie.

    That's sad but I think I can understand where your coming from. I finished the sentence in my head before I finished reading it cause I knew if you said something about dying it would mean being with Maxie.

    Those poor people.
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    What I think is so sad is the fact that no other humans meant as much to them as the dog. No brothers or sisters. They must have been very alone. I hope they have found happiness and everyone is together at last.

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    Everything has to die sooner or later, that's stupid taking your life for a dog.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Argranade
    Everything has to die sooner or later, that's stupid taking your life for a dog.
    You would do the same if one of your own beloved pets died. It's not at all stupid.

    That's horrible . After Tink died I really didn't feel like living anymore until I looked at Roxy and saw her smile for me and then soon after we brought Lily home.
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    Very sad that they thought they had nothing left to live for when Puppy died. If only they could have volunteered at their local shelter or done something else to work through their grief. One of the toughest things we have to face is how short our precious pets lives are.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Argranade
    Everything has to die sooner or later, that's stupid taking your life for a dog.
    Would you feel differently if it were an elderly couple and a bird?

    It's not stupid. And just because it's supposed to be inevitable doesn't mean it doesn't affect one any less. It's about grief, about sadness, about losing the most important aspect of their life.

    Regardless of anyones position on the act of suicide itself.

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    You would do the same if one of your own beloved pets died. It's not at all stupid.
    No I would not do that same, Argranade was my most speacail bird ever, I had him from a little egg, I taught him how to fly and he would follow me around the house, every single time I called his name he would fly right down to me. Sadly a few years later he got a disease, he was fighting for his life for a few days untill one night when he was laying beside me I turned out the light and just as I reached to hold him he took his last breath and died in my arms ... our hole little friendship was gone and I never wanted another pet again.

    You may think it was JUST a pigeon and will never match up to a dog but that's bull **** because a pigeon can be just a good of a pet as a dog can, but for me he was better, this little pigeon had such a spirit that I'll never forget no matter what.

    Did you see me hang my self? NO because I was told if you kill your self you go to hell, yeah sounds like a bunch of bull LOL but I'm not taken any chances, even if I never heard of that I would NEVER even think of taking my life for a animal.

    Would you feel differently if it were an elderly couple and a bird?
    No, why would I feel any different, It would be even more stupid if they took there life over a budgie, ya taking your life is wrong no matter how lovey dovey you put it, those old people must have had problems in there life and when there dog died I geuss all those problems smashed into there brain.

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