Will be thinking of you today Barry. You will get through it because you have to but you don't have to put on a brave front for anyone.

When my Dad died I found the grieving process didn't really kick in until after his funeral - up to then we were all occupied with making the arrangements.

There is no time limit on grief - I still cry for my Dad now, two years later. The time will come when your happy memories will replace the sorrow you feel but only when your heart has had time to heal. In the meantime remember you are surrounded by people who care very much for you and your family. Fritz will be a great comfort to you as Tobey was to me.

Take care

Denise