Quote Originally Posted by Karen
You are doing something. You are being the "port in a storm" and the one she can call to talk to about the others. And being away, she can do so without fearing you'll run into any of the others. Just by being "the good one" right now, you're helping, betcha a dollar.

I feel bad because I haven't seen her since June.... that's a long time

I know she has been dealing with these issues for a long time... she actually ended up moving an hour away from the others just so they wouldn't use her as a babysitter all the time... she has a tough time saying no sometimes. I guess that is why she is so excited about my pregnancy lol she knows I won't just drop the baby off any ole time... not that I would do that.

I wish she could come for a visit... even just for a weekend and we could get out and do some stuff to take her mind off of everything....

to make matters worse.... the 25th of March was the 35th anniversary of her fathers tragic death.... he commited suicide I know that has been on her mind.