Any advice?! I need it ASAP!

[Kalei]

Wow that definately sounds like a situation

I think the best thing you can do is continue to be a bestfriend to him, listen to him and when he wants advice give him your honest opinion and the best advice he could hear right now.

The best thing for anyone is to be able to just be there for them.

[sweetpatata6]

Kalei had great ideas and I would also like to add that you should take family time off of work ((he DEFFINATELY sounds like family)) and talk sick time. Take him and the kids places, but don't do that too much. Just treat him like those six years away never happened.

[king2005]

Kalei had great ideas and I would also like to add that you should take family time off of work ((he DEFFINATELY sounds like family)) and talk sick time. Take him and the kids places, but don't do that too much. Just treat him like those six years away never happened.

The kids wont be coming, they are not his. They will stay with his friend (the guy might be their father not sure, didn't ask but hes involved in their lives)... The puppy will stay behind aswell.. it'll just be my friend.

Saddly I cannot take any time off work, except to pick him up & return. I don't get paid & I'm living pay to pay.. I know he'll be just fine alone with Bear, he'll take her on walks & they'll be attached at the hip. Dogs LOVE him. My old dog loved to chew on his hands & arms (Chance was the only person he'd do that to) & wouldn't leave Chances side.

I know he'll be really uncomfy around the guys, hes kinda a homophobe, but not a hater... But everyone likes the guys, they are so easy going & not flamers.


When I saw him last month, the 3 of us, just sat in their place & watched a movie. We hardly talked, we just enjoyed each others company... She was nice & ok with me there, but there was tension, I thought she had anxiety & was shy of strangers... But she was polite ... I had waited years to get a Chance hug & I got it Man was it ever good, I missed those, except he was a BIG man for last hugs, now hes a toothpick

I'm just so excited that he might be coming down & I'll get to see him again.