You want me to do what to get a date? Dang, really bad advice :S

[JenBKR]

Good job - don't change who you are for ANYONE

[king2005]

Thank you

I don't mind changing to be better, as in improving myself (like my Anxiety), or dressing up (mostly unwillingly) for a special outting like the guys wedding & the fancy xmas party for work.. Sure I HATE dresses, make up & all that other girly stuff, but it was only for one night & was more so to have fun, not to change me...