Whats going to hurt the most is letting my 3 yr old son give her a hug and kiss and say goodbye to his great grandmother who he may not remember since he is so young and wont understand whats happening to her, I heard she talks and can remember more when she is on the morphine but thats about it. she cant really breath, if she moves she stops breathing, Whats so strange is I was my sons age when I have to say goodbye to my great grammy and it was in the same house, its like same thing happening over again.