She is cute!!! I think having "joint" custody is a good thing, so you both get to enjoy her. I remember how much I loved getting to see Chuck, our Yellow Lab boy, whenever I had an opportunity to, after my divorce. And he never forgot me. Chuck lived to the ripe old age of 15......what a special boy he was. Helen's dad (Helen is my daughter) loves seeing Mimi, our 13 year old cat, to this day......the occasions are rare, but when he has reason to come to our house, he always loves on Mimi, and Helen says he always asks about her too.