Hand me over a bottle.......

[Babyboonie]

I'm the same way. I can't help but get mad when I see a teenager expecting when I can't conceive!

Reading back over my original posting, I think my emotions were running high! I am the same as you Sirrahved and it's a hard thing to come to terms with if you want to have children. I suppose in some ways I am still in denial and am convinced it will happen , but it never will naturally...if at all. Still at least the "tryings" fun!!

Husky Mom - good luck and have fun!

[Husky_mom]

well............ good I din´t see much of the discussion, but thanks to those who understand.........

this would be my second, if it ever happens............ so I thik I know what I´m doing and what to expect......... it´s not "just for fun"

and my hubby knew from the start so I was in no way tricking him.........

he just thinks he´s not quite ready for a second one right now.......if he waits until he thinks he´s ready they it´ll never happen.......

I stopped the BC because it was time for changing the "item" for a new one and since I have to wait for 3-4 months so they replace it, I somewhat seized the opportunity for the posibility of a second child.........

it´s not like I have to get preg right this second maybe around june/july or so...... if he feels better waiting then he can contribute on the BC......

there are other factors involving me wanting a child now, but they don´t seem to affect him, I mean he´s a man ha can hava a kid even when hes 70 but I can´t and I´m not getting any younger........... I want to have the physical condition to don´t sleep, be always on the lookut, play and everything a child involves.......I don´t want them to be too apart from each other agewise........

anyway thanks for your support and hopefully PT vibes work on my hubby fast so he "thinks" hes ready