thanks... but its so frustraing i asked her (with info, etc) over a month ago.. her response were teh same "becos i sed so....bcos i jus dont want to... i dont need a reason the answer is just no...." etc etc the usual ignorant annoyin answers lol... im planning an attempt with her again soon, but it just ends up with her rolling her eyes, having a go at me for askin agen (even when i dont shout she does... lol)