Kim
You are doing the most beneficial thing, ignoring him.

Ashley needs to feel that she can depend on you both, and she already knows, that CF is all wrong, evidenced by her "going along" with the bashing her friends did.

It is hard to admit that your parents are right, harder still to make a break amongst negativity. You and hubby ignoring it, and not fueling it will allow her the chance to make her decision with out feeling pressured into it.

Sit tight and be supportive and if AT ALL possible find some kind thing to say if pressed, if not agree with her nice comments and leave it at that.

This will pass in Ashleys best interest and you will all be able to breathe a collective sigh of relief.


I will send my bill via Wombat on his snail mail

hugs,

Kym