I'm not married to him but I've been living with him for a few years, and I have to say...he does do things that irritate me....like poking and prodding and tickling and startling me until I snap, or saying "WATCH OUT!" any time another car enters the road while I'm driving, but I know I drive him crazy too...by leaving dishes unwashed in the sink, by putting off doing the laundry, or by holding in stress until I can't take it anymore and having a breakdown all over him, usually in the middle of the night.