It's OVER

[pitc9]

So many women stay in an abusive relationship because they don't have a good sense of their own self worth. Congratulations to you for finally taking a stand to take care of yourself.

Couldn't have said it better!

{{hugs}} to you!
And {{hugs}} to Sasha for helping you through this!

[emily_the_spoiled]

Congratulations Gayle,

It is always a difficult decision and never an easy one, but it is the right one. You and Sasha will be much happier without having to be in fear all the time.

You did good kiddo!!!

P.S. You can order that book online (and then you don't have to go out in the snow )

[Queen of Poop]

P.S. You can order that book online (and then you don't have to go out in the snow )

Yes, I could. But the book is only $9 and the shipping/handling is half of that again.

[Queen of Poop]

I've just learned that he's taken a couple of email addresses from my blackberry. Fool thought if he deleted them on my blackberry that he'd get away with it. But they're on my computer as I have it set up to delete from my computer only, not the blackberry. So I have an electronic record of his treachery.

Anyways, he now has the email for my boss and my counsellor.

What will he do with this - Lord only knows.

He's lost a measure of control be being out of the house, now he's trying to find another one. He's actually starting to scare me now.

[joycenalex]

call them right away and let them know that he might be contacting them, pretending to be you. now, this is from someone who was physically abused (once) and financially misused to the tune of 20,000. close all and any accounts that he has access to, change all the passwords to everything. get a lawyer, today. have you changed your locks yet? do your co-workers know he's been removed by the cops? you might want to let security at work know that he's out of your house and has been removed by the cops too. we have an employee assistance people at my job, and they can give you lots of advice and help. ((HUGS))

[Queen of Poop]

call them right away and let them know that he might be contacting them, pretending to be you. now, this is from someone who was physically abused (once) and financially misused to the tune of 20,000. close all and any accounts that he has access to, change all the passwords to everything. get a lawyer, today. have you changed your locks yet? do your co-workers know he's been removed by the cops? you might want to let security at work know that he's out of your house and has been removed by the cops too. we have an employee assistance people at my job, and they can give you lots of advice and help. ((HUGS))

I have let them both know. Fortunately our banking is separate. I have told people at work the situation. He cannot get onto our floors in our building without a passcard.

[Husky_mom]

good grief!......why can´t they accept it......like a "man".....

I bet this makes you even more glad you ended it........scary I know, but glad you are no longer involved........

you did right, let everyone be aware of the situation so he can´t proclaim be you and do stuff on your behalf.........take care honey......we are still here

[Catty1]

Let the police know too!

http://www.fp.ucalgary.ca/sexualharassment/Stalking.htm

This is at the U of C, Gayle. I know you have a counsellor, but this might be something worth discussing with her.

Write down every little thing he does. IT may be enough to add up to jail time, and mandatory counselling for HIM.

And your workplace, counsellor and boss all have record of this now.

Is there someone else you can stay with for a while? A friend that can all you at pre-arranged times? (Invent a code word so that she knows to disconnect and call 911 if necessary.) Or can the police have extra car surveillance with a drive-by?

The last thing I want to do is panic you...you have good people there and here - all working for your safety!