well, I guess it's not bad giving chances more than I should. overapology, is when I keep thinking this person is still hurt and I like to be sure this person know I'm sorry. like, I check in with her/him, trying to keep everything in communication.

my mother always tells me, sorry is just a five-lettered word.. I believe that too, partly, because actions speak louder than words. but I can say sorry at first then show how sorry I am. the person just thought I overapologized because my friend "shouldn't take it seriously". I'm like dr. goodnow, I take any hurt/statements seriously. I get hurt, then recover easily once am understood but not when others are!

I saw the quote other day, never apologize with making an excuse. always true. I so hate when someone do that, it makes things worse, do you think so?