It's OVER

[joycenalex]

call them right away and let them know that he might be contacting them, pretending to be you. now, this is from someone who was physically abused (once) and financially misused to the tune of 20,000. close all and any accounts that he has access to, change all the passwords to everything. get a lawyer, today. have you changed your locks yet? do your co-workers know he's been removed by the cops? you might want to let security at work know that he's out of your house and has been removed by the cops too. we have an employee assistance people at my job, and they can give you lots of advice and help. ((HUGS))

[Queen of Poop]

call them right away and let them know that he might be contacting them, pretending to be you. now, this is from someone who was physically abused (once) and financially misused to the tune of 20,000. close all and any accounts that he has access to, change all the passwords to everything. get a lawyer, today. have you changed your locks yet? do your co-workers know he's been removed by the cops? you might want to let security at work know that he's out of your house and has been removed by the cops too. we have an employee assistance people at my job, and they can give you lots of advice and help. ((HUGS))

I have let them both know. Fortunately our banking is separate. I have told people at work the situation. He cannot get onto our floors in our building without a passcard.

[Husky_mom]

good grief!......why can´t they accept it......like a "man".....

I bet this makes you even more glad you ended it........scary I know, but glad you are no longer involved........

you did right, let everyone be aware of the situation so he can´t proclaim be you and do stuff on your behalf.........take care honey......we are still here

[Catty1]

Let the police know too!

http://www.fp.ucalgary.ca/sexualharassment/Stalking.htm

This is at the U of C, Gayle. I know you have a counsellor, but this might be something worth discussing with her.

Write down every little thing he does. IT may be enough to add up to jail time, and mandatory counselling for HIM.

And your workplace, counsellor and boss all have record of this now.

Is there someone else you can stay with for a while? A friend that can all you at pre-arranged times? (Invent a code word so that she knows to disconnect and call 911 if necessary.) Or can the police have extra car surveillance with a drive-by?

The last thing I want to do is panic you...you have good people there and here - all working for your safety!