Both would adopt the 2. Although "N" was originally only interested in 1.
Watching the boys interact with the people IS a good idea, but they are such sweet babies, I can't see how they will act differently with either of them. (now if we were talking one of my adult fosters, YES, I can see how there might be a different reaction to different people)
And I really can't fault "J" for calling (over going online) because the newpaper spot SAYS to call for info. And the One by One telephone number goes to our director who does NOT have internet access so she puts them in touch wit the foster moms vis telephone.
HHHmmmmmmmmmmm. Less than an hour before "J" visits. And I am still uncertain how I will eventually handle this.





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