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    Is there any feasible way of making her a secure outdoor enclosure?

    We have a large one now that has many cats in it. Leila would do even worse out there among them. She would have no escape route to go to get away from them.

    On the other hand she might do fine in a one cat home. Could you work with a shelter that would have "new" owners return her to you if she did not work out?

    Our shelters don’t work that way. When we turn a cat over to them we sign paperwork that we relinquish ownership to them. They could notify us if the cat was returned, but we would have to go through the adoption process to get her back. The only way this would work is if we found someone on our own, explained her problem, and then hope they would call us to return her.

    Did you try Nancy, that psychic, yet?

    No, I personally have just not gotten into the psychic thing as of yet. I’m not saying they don’t work; I just haven’t bought into it yet. I’m getting desperate enough it could be an option for me though.

    Have you thought of trannies from the vet?

    I’m assuming your talking diapers here? IF we could even get them on Leila, we’re not home all day long so this wouldn’t work except for a few hours out of the day. Plus the fact her temperament would probably not even give us a chance to get them on her. Leila is a very moody cat. One minute she may be as sweet as pie, and the next she growling, hissing, and swatting you. Sometimes she’s just sitting and I’ll walk by her and she’ll, in a mean way, attack. This is why I really don’t feel she’s adoptable and anyone would tolerate her.

    But what about putting her back into the park. After all, isn't that what you do?

    Yes, we TNR but for ferals. It’s not easy for a tame to survive in the park. For one, they are way too friendly for all the people that come and go there. Even though Leila is temperamental, she did come to us when we took her home. Sadly there are those that have done some terrible things to some of the animals there. Second, with Leila not being able to get along with other cats there is no way she’d be accepted into the colony. Getting food etc. could be very hard for her.

    Park. It's the only solution that will truly free you and all your other cats from the terrible strain you are all under. You may have to sacrifice this one to the rigors of park living in order to give many others the life they need.

    I wish it were as simple as that, but as you can see from the above answer it isn’t. I would rather put her down than put here somewhere I didn’t feel she could survive and might come to a horrible death, know what I mean?

    I sure appreciate everyone’s thoughts and answers here because maybe eventually someone will think of something that might work. It’s very frustrating but when I make a commitment, like rescuing a cat, I cannot just give up and push it aside no matter how frustrated I feel. *sigh* I just wish she’d get a clue and no how good she has it!
    Trap-Neuter-Return (TNR) is a full management plan in which stray and feral cats already living outdoors in cities, towns, and rural areas are humanely trapped, then evaluated, vaccinated, and sterilized by veterinarians. Kittens and tame cats are adopted into good homes. Healthy adult cats too wild to be adopted are returned to their familiar habitat under the lifelong care of volunteers

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    I knew she would be in danger from people because she is social to humans, but I didn't realize how much. And I didn't think about her not being accepted into the colony, though I should have. We are more concerned about you than Leila at this point, but your main concern is the cat.

    I believe by trannies, the poster meant tranquilizers. I can't remember if you've tried those. Given Leila's personality, you may have to go for something heavier than Prozac, something like Buspar. Although then you will have a zombie on your hands part of the time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lizzie
    I believe by trannies, the poster meant tranquilizers. I can't remember if you've tried those. Given Leila's personality, you may have to go for something heavier than Prozac, something like Buspar. Although then you will have a zombie on your hands part of the time.
    DUH! I should've know that! Yes, that will be my first thought and try. Maybe it will calm her nerves down a bit!
    Trap-Neuter-Return (TNR) is a full management plan in which stray and feral cats already living outdoors in cities, towns, and rural areas are humanely trapped, then evaluated, vaccinated, and sterilized by veterinarians. Kittens and tame cats are adopted into good homes. Healthy adult cats too wild to be adopted are returned to their familiar habitat under the lifelong care of volunteers

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lizzie
    We are more concerned about you than Leila at this point, but your main concern is the cat.
    I sure appreciate that! I'm afraid I'd be even more a basket case if I didn't know what happened to her!
    Trap-Neuter-Return (TNR) is a full management plan in which stray and feral cats already living outdoors in cities, towns, and rural areas are humanely trapped, then evaluated, vaccinated, and sterilized by veterinarians. Kittens and tame cats are adopted into good homes. Healthy adult cats too wild to be adopted are returned to their familiar habitat under the lifelong care of volunteers

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    She is lucky to have you - not much help I know but too many would have given up on her by now
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    That Has To Be About The Hardest Thing To Have A Cat That You Want To Help But Cant.
    I Hope That Theres Someway You Can Help That Poor Cat Out.
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    What a bad situation. I do suggest you try valium or something like that for her. We use it on Ripley now and then to help him chill out which in turns curbs his urge to spray. His is all stress and behavioral so if stress is her issue then medicating her would probably help at least some. Definitely worth trying and with Valium I see a quick affect. It doesn't take long to work on him. I do hate to see him drugged but honestly it's better than him being stressed, pulling out his fur and peeing inappropriately. He's just one laid back happy guy.

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