Thank you all again. We're all slowly adjusting to the fact that our sweet little girl will not be coming back.
The driver's seat of the motorhome turns around so it faces the rest of our living room. Sitting/sleeping on the driver's seat was Peanut's favorite spot. CJ respected that and even though he really likes that spot too, he never slept there because that was Peanut's spot. I was wondering how long it would take him to go back there, and yesterday was the first day I saw him there, taking a bath then a nap. This indicates to me that he has figured out she's not coming back. He's doing fine. I would say he was a little depressed for a day or two because he seemed really "muted" in his actions - no goofy little boy running around the place. But yesterday not only did he sleep in her spot, he was back to his goofy little boy self. Which tells me it's time to find him a new sister before he gets too used to being the only snot in the house.
One other quick butterfly story. We are staying at Picacho Peak RV Resort South of Phoenix, North of Tucson. Friday we "Hiked the Peak." It was really quite the climb - way more than either of us expected, and we were gone way longer than we expected. When we were about 1/2 way back down, a butterfly buzzed me again, then flew over by Terry, then flew off. Same kind of butterfly as the one we saw that first day. We figured CJ might be worried about us and that was Peanut, checking up on us then reporting back to CJ that we were ok. We haven't seen any other butterflies - the same type or different...... So....maybe when Peanut went to report to CJ that we were ok, she let him know too that she was ok and that it was ok for him to sit in her favorite spot.
We miss her terribly, but we know she's in a much better spot.
Tubby
Spring 1986 - Dec. 11, 2004
RIP Big Boy
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Peanut
Fall 1988 - Jan. 24, 2007
RIP Snotty Girl
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Robin
Fall 1997 - Oct. 6, 2012
RIP Sweet Monkeyhead Girl
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