Does anyone else get blamed for EVERYTHING?? *rant*

[Alysser]

Thanks everyone.

I talked to my mom today, she said she won't try and blame things on me unless it really is my fault, and she will talk to my dad too. Thank god this crap is over..

[critter crazy]

well it seems like you have already done, what i was going to suggest! Talking is always the way to deal with these issues! Good job!

[xcolbi]

Oh my gosh, I FEEL FOR YA! The exact same thing happens to me ALL the time. It's so annoying! I hope things get better for you soon!

[Vela]

Thanks everyone.

I talked to my mom today, she said she won't try and blame things on me unless it really is my fault, and she will talk to my dad too. Thank god this crap is over..

Speaking as a parent, sometimes the stresses of life we have to deal with are overwhelming and we do sometimes take it out on the kids without meaning to just because we feel so stressed over big things that kids just really don't know about, and they shouldn't need to, they are kids. I know your mom loves you and I'm glad you talked to her, to let her know how you feel rather than holding it in and continuing to feel resentful. I'm glad they are going to try harder not to do that to you.

[Daisy and Delilah]

I agree completely with Vela. I'm so glad you talked it out with your Mom, Alyssa. That's the best way. I always tried to keep open communication going with my kids. It sounds like you and your Mom have a good relationship. It matters alot. {{{{{MORE HUGS}}}}}

[dab_20]

I know what you mean, I'm the youngest of my siblings and so have always been blamed if something is broken or went missing. Talking to your parents was a good idea and hopefully they won't blame you unless they've got a good reason.

[kimlovescats]

I'm so glad you talked to your mom! That was the best thing to do! Sometimes we parents need "lectures" too! (((HUGS)))

[caseysmom]

You seem like you are pretty responsible for your age, too bad they don't appreciate that. I think talking to your mom was a step in the right direction.