Really need a pep talk about airplanes.

[Lady's Human]

I fly several times a year, as I have to go to off site training for my job. I hate flying with a passion,( I split my trips between flying and driving) but commercial airlines are the safest way to travel.

I hate to reccomend meds to ANYONE, but.........

One of my co-workers is afraid of flying and claustrophibic. (Great combo when you have to fly )

The only way he can get on an aircraft is to take valium beforehand. It calms him down enough to get him through the flight. You may want to talk to your doc about that.

[lvpets2002]

You would guess me being in Aviation that I would love to fly.. Well yes I love to fly.. I just hate the whole airport thing.. But once I am on the plane then its smooth sailing.. Just look at this away = you get to see so much more of God's creation..

[ramanth]

I do not frequently fly, but I love being in planes. If tickets and traveling didn't cost so much, I swear I'd be flying much more.

Phobias are nothing to laugh at.

I have to second the comment on valium or some other medication that may relax you.. like Xanax or some other anti-anxiety medication.

[kuhio98]

For work, I fly twice a month. This may not be what you want to hear, but I figure what will be will be. We're all going to go when it is our time and it's all been decided already, so why worry? I can't control and I've made my peace with it so I just go with the flow. I refuse to limit my life because of my fears. I am much more frightened of dying in a car wreck and flying. Thousands of people check out every inch of a plane throughout the year -- hardly anyone checks out cars -- or their drivers.

Bobcat is terrified of flying. He takes a valium before getting on the plane and is much more relaxed -- and so am I since before valium, he used to get stinking drunk on the plane.

Please consider asking your doctor for a prescription. Sure, you don't want to come to rely on medication for every-day stresses and strains, but since your fear of flying is negatively limiting your life, why not try it?

[angelbow20]

Im flying feb. 14th to go to disney world in orlando florida, and its my 3 yr old sons first time.... Im a bit scared to seeing I havent been on a plain since the whole 9/11 thing but its really not that bad im sure, depends on how long you will be on the plain, we will only be on 2 hours so I will just close my eyes and try to forget im on the plain.... Dont worry though grab a book or something and take a nap once your on the plain.

[Karen]

I have flown many times, and had a great time usually - even though my very first time in an airplane, we had to "buzz" the tower twice because the indicator light for the landing gear wouldn't come on - so they shone a big light straight up, and looked to tell our piot if the gear were down.

Know that you are safer, and have more people looking out for your safety - in an airplane than you are in car on your own street! Bring books, crocheting - something to keep you busy while you wait, and on the flight itself. You can do this, I promise!

[Randi]

If you're flying in the very near future, I'd suggest you take 5 mg. of Valium an hour before departure, that I'm sure wil relax you. If you have some more time before you go, then, how about one of these "courses" for people scared of flying? They really seem to help a lot - from what I've heard.

I don't mind flying at all, I actually enjoy it, mostly the take off, landing, drinks and food.

The very first time I was on an airoplane, I didn't really know what to expect, thought I might get sick, since they had these paper bags in front of every seat. But I didn't. I suppose it was a good thing that my first flight was the worst I ever experienced, because I had no idea if what was happening was normal or not. It was a propellar (DC8 I think) flying over the alps (which is not allowed anymore), and in a thunderstorm.

Perhaps getting to know all that goes on, and what the different noises are, will help you relax. I guess, the more you know, the better.

I was lucky in 2000 to be invited to sit on the flight deck during landing, that was really interesting, but of course, after 9/11, this will not be possible anymore.

Hope you have pleasant flight! You WILL survive!

[Donnaj4962]

I fly several times a year... and it is definitely the way to go! I agree with Karen, it is a much safer mode of transportation than traveling by car... and you get there that much faster!

I have flown in some rough weather, even a thunderstorm that had produced tornadoes. The last trip I took (this past Christmas and New Years) the flight from Florida to Indiana was so bumpy that they had to stop the beverage service. But I just concentrated on my book, and I was fine.

I would agree with a little something to calm you down before your flight, but don't overdo it. If you are flying in the day, there is so much to see from the window. Heck, the lights are gorgeous in the evening also! You want to keep your wits about you... but still be relaxed. Have fun! It truly is one of the safest modes of transportation!

[Suki Wingy]

I have a pilot in the family. He flies every day pretty much from Pitsburg, PA to Jamaica, and he's never run into trouble. I also fly a lot. Commercial Airlines can make it through a lot. Heavy storms over mountains will create turbulance (been there) but nothing will go wrong. The one time a craft did loose one engine, it drifted and everyone was ok.

[Freedom]

OK, this is what you do.

On take off: just picture the old Flistones cartoons. There's Fred and Barney running their feet like mad down the runway trying to get enough speed to pull in their feet (landing gear) and get rolling! You can actually close your eyes and hear their feet going "pitter patter pitter patter" until they (you) leave the ground!

On landing: you picture them dragging their feet to slow things down!

Works for me for years. Hope it helps you, too!