Miss KaDi!!! I think you are the very first ORANGE LADY that I can recall as our COTD!!! Yes, you are the one in charge, and you make sure that one forgets that!!! At our house, there are several cats that ADORE their dad, and I am just the food preparer, medication/sub q giver, brush and comber. We are weel aware how SENSITIVE an ORANGE cat can be, Ralph Syracuse gave us a great amount of instruction in that area!! HAPPY COTD!!!