Quote Originally Posted by borzoimom
okay- I may have no right to say anything as I was not in this, or the coming gift swap either- but I will say this- after reading how ugly this turned, how feelings got hurt- count me out of all swaps but the compliment thread....
For God sake Lori was ill, BC mom got hit hard the whole month of december, and instead of sympathy, I see an attack.. The others- well I do not know- but from the point of a reader of this thread, NEVER will I join a swap.. And I am deleting my " kicking dirt clods" I cant join the gift swap.. To me- none of this is worth it and highly juvenile in appearance..
For God sake- we should hold each other up- NOT kick them when they are already down...

please forgive ME, as I was the one who brought the subjetc up, I never meant it to turn up this way........never........
I thought I was doing a good thing letting everyone know what were the resons they didnīt got a card from someone, I was by no means trying to "kick" someone when down.......just letting everybody know if they should worry about someone like Lori, some may not know she was ill, some may not know Catluvrs was lookig for another job.......it couldīve been as well to give them support in those times, not meaning "start harrassing them for a card"........no way I meant that.........

Iīm so sorry how this turned out, please forgive me and please stop arguments caused by my bad posting...........

I wish you can forget about it, but was itīs said it was said......so Iīll just stick to my OWN card delivery.....I hope everybody knows know as to why and I believe many donīt care (in a good way) if they received all or just a few (it was the thought that counts) but for me I want MY cards to gt their destination as they were sent (not saying anything about those who didnīt, they had they reasons and i totally understand them) but Iīd hate to see my sent cards get lost.........

sorry about taking too much space but i hope I made myself clear adn hoping no further swap negativeness is taken in consideration........swaps are fun.......so letīs keep them that way......

sincerely
Isabel