Thank you, krazyaboutkatz!

The male will be my first choice, however it looks like I have third choice of the litter of 3 males and 2 females. I will love which ever one I get, and it seems shallow to think of colors as the choice. One of the boys is black and white just like Buddy, so in order not to have twins he might be last choice over one of the girls, but I'll just have to see. They won't be ready until the first week in October, so I am going to see if I can visit soon to help decide, even though it'll be about a 2 hour drive. It's a good point that holding them and finding the cuddliest one might the best way to choose.