But how do you get them to stop there. I asked him and he said fine and did the sitting/living room and then we moved to the kitchen and now he has pulled out our old stairs and made and fitted a new one and now we are on to teh bedroom please make him stop its not funny any more I will never ask for something to be done again if I am not careful he will work so hard and well around me that he will decorate me into the room that I am in - maybe I should go downstairs for safety - yep going talk to you tomorrow from the safety of my office in work bbbyyyyeeee!!!!!!