Quote Originally Posted by Edwina's Secretary
I would be careful about having people address their own thank you cards. I know many who would be offended by this!
Not that you are inviting me, anyhow, BUT, I would be horribly offended by this. If you can't find the time/energy/initiative to handwrite your own thank you cards/envelopes, frankly, you are too busy to have a bridal shower!

I think it is 100% tacky.