And one more thing Nicole- I do believe they have gifts within them we can not understand. Like what yours does with your situation, Zubin is the reason I went to the doctor because he kept pressing his head into my lap and rested his head on me all the time- even sending instant messanges to people like "hjkl" as he rested his head on the table my lap top is at. I went to the doctor- scared he was detecting cancer- it wasnt- but it was serious. Its not cancer he is detecting as he works with those that have it- its a change in life whatever and he is trying to help- just like yours is doing..