Quote Originally Posted by kimlovescats
Miscarriages are a very personal and upsetting thing. Your mother was probably very upset each time and just wanted to spare you and your sister the pain. Don't be mad at her!
I agree, and also hard to deal with. In her greif, the last thing she needs is your anger. Miscarriages are not her fault. And telling you may have been too painful to discuss. If anything, now that you know, I think you should offer support to her..like " oh mom I am so sorry...".