Should I be mad??

[kimlovescats]

Miscarriages are a very personal and upsetting thing. Your mother was probably very upset each time and just wanted to spare you and your sister the pain. Don't be mad at her!

[Toby's my baby]

Lol ok, I was pretty sure she was probably really upset about it at the time. I dont think I could be mad at her, I guess I'm just kinda frustrated because when she told me about it tonight, she didn't make it sound like a big deal, and I know it had to have been each time.

Weird..every Christmas I find out something new, last year it was that my brothers son died from SIDS. Hopefully no more bad news will come!

[critter crazy]

Speaking from personal experiance, a Miscarriage is a very personal thing. Your mother had every right to keep that to herself. I am sure even now it was very difficult for her to talk about it. Nothing to get mad about.

[BC_MoM]

There is no justification for you to be mad - I cannot see any reasons for being mad either.

But it is very saddening. I can only imagine how upsetting it was for your Mother.

[luvofallhorses]

Miscarriages are a very personal and upsetting thing. Your mother was probably very upset each time and just wanted to spare you and your sister the pain. Don't be mad at her!

Ditto.

[borzoimom]

Miscarriages are a very personal and upsetting thing. Your mother was probably very upset each time and just wanted to spare you and your sister the pain. Don't be mad at her!

I agree, and also hard to deal with. In her greif, the last thing she needs is your anger. Miscarriages are not her fault. And telling you may have been too painful to discuss. If anything, now that you know, I think you should offer support to her..like " oh mom I am so sorry...".