Major Worries! IT's EVEN WORSE!!!

[kimlovescats]

Today has been another exhausting day, but I at least have some peace for the moment. I have been praying for guidance from God this entire time, and praying that He would put on my heart what was the right thing to do. Today when I left the courtroom, and returned back home, Amy Beth called me. At that moment I knew that I needed to bond her out, if only to see her baby for the holidays. I did it. I know many of you will be disappointed and not understand, but I ask you to please try to put yourself in my shoes. I felt like that if Chad had a right to now have Jenna during Christmas and not be in jail, why should my daughter not have the same? There is a good chance that either or both of them will have to serve time after their court dates ... Jenna deserves to have both her Mommy and Daddy in her life for as long as she can. I know now that his mother (Denise) is struggling as well ... she put her arms around me in the elevator today and said, "our kids really mess up, don't they?" I didn't say a word but just broke down and bawled in her arms. When the elevator door opened, I stepped out and we went our separate ways.

I just took Amy Beth back to her apartment, and her MIL (Denise) is going to bring Jenna over to visit with her. I pray that they enjoy their reunion and are blessed during their time together.

Thank you all for your continued prayers ... Cassiesmom, I appreciate your beautiful prayer here on the thread!!! You ALL mean so much to me!!! This all is far from over ... court and sentencing still lie ahead ... but for the next couple of weeks, I hope to be able to focus on the true meaning of Christmas and the Love that God has freely given to us all!

Kim

[borzoimom]

We are behind you at a 150 percent.. no kidding.. You are there- we are not.. I am so sorry it came to this- I just wish I knew what to say here..

[joycenalex]

kim-((hugs)) you are walking a hard road, i wish it goes well for you.

[Catty1]

HUGS. You know the situation and your heart best.

Will Amy Beth be staying at her apartment? I wish you a family Christmas with all the love possible!

[kimlovescats]

HUGS. You know the situation and your heart best.

Will Amy Beth be staying at her apartment? I wish you a family Christmas with all the love possible!

Yes, she will be staying in her apartment. The same bondswoman bonded both Chad and Amy Beth. She told her that if either one of them tries to contact each other in the slightest way, she will have them both thrown right back in jail! They both have court appearances on January 2nd.

Chad has custody of Jenna right now and Amy Beth has supervised visitation with her. However, Chad told my husband that he didn't want full custody of Jenna when he picked her up today!

Amy Beth has to find a job ASAP ... she was told to get a title loan on her car right away and pay whatever she could get to her bonding agent. Once she gets a job, she has to make $100.00 per week payments on her bond as well. If she misses a payment, she goes back to jail as well. The bondswoman told her that if she could come up with $2,000.00 in the next week then they would consider her paid in full. (Her debt is actually $2,500.00) Well, if she (we) had that kind of money sitting around she wouldn't have needed to make payments! They also only gave her 90 days to pay off the full debt! Even if she goes back to jail before it is paid off, she will still owe the balance.

I can't thank all of you enough for caring to keep up with this thread and continuing to pray for us! It is far from over, I'm not nieve about that, but I can at least take a breather and enjoy Christmas with my complete family.

LOVE YOU ALL!
Kim

[jackmilliesmom]

I am sorry for what I said about your husband and Amanda I did not realise the situation but I am glad that Jerry is there for you.


I am keeping you in my thoughts and hope that Jenna has a good Christmas and hopefully her New Year looks brighter. I am also going to say that I hope Amy Beth abides by her bail conditions and that Chad does also - take care and I pray you have a peaceful Christmas and New Year

[Craftlady]

Bondsman/women dont fool around they are upfronting the monies and want to be paid back. 90 days is very reasonable pay back plan. $100 a week is steep but then again that's the price one pays for not sitting in jail.

Good Luck

[kimlovescats]

I am sorry for what I said about your husband and Amanda I did not realise the situation but I am glad that Jerry is there for you.


I am keeping you in my thoughts and hope that Jenna has a good Christmas and hopefully her New Year looks brighter. I am also going to say that I hope Amy Beth abides by her bail conditions and that Chad does also - take care and I pray you have a peaceful Christmas and New Year

You didn't upset me at all! I understand that it is hard for everyone to possibly know all that it going on in this. I try to just post the main points and I have neglected to really mention how other family members have been acting / feeling!

I could not ask for a more loving husband and / or daughter as I have in Jerry and Amanda! They are truly gifts from God!

[Pam]

Kim I just want you to know that I am reading and following along, and even though I am far away and not aware of all that is going on behind the scenes you have 100% of my support. Life is very hard at times. We all have burdens to carry and, honestly, I don't know how we'd get through this thing called life without giving these things to God. (((Hugs))) to you and please know that many of us care and are remembering you in prayer. I am so glad that you and Chad's mom seem to have a good relationship. After all, each of you wants the same thing - a resolution to your children's problems and the very best for Jenna. I wish your family peace and blessings at Christmas and always.