Amy Beth is old enough to take care of herself. She had a wonderful mother like you to raise her, and it's her choice to take what she learned from you and apply it to her own life. Why should you waste your life babysitting her?

You, now, have to take care of itty bitty Jenna (not that you mind, I think? but it does tie you down sometimes) and give her the best Christmas possible right now.

Stay strong!